To Fully Concede

“We learned that we had to fully concede to our innermost selves that we were alcoholics. This is the first step in recovery.” –Alcoholics Anonymous big book page 30 *

What a great statement this is, there is so much packed into two short sentences. The sentence opens up with its first clause of “We Learned”, so this means at this point 3260546-the-black-king-surrendering-on-a-chess-boardthere is something that has been teaching us. Most people learn through the process of making mistakes, the value of learning from a relapse, as eluded to in the previous paragraph. Second to concede means to accept as true, my personal favorite definition is this one. “admit that something is true or valid after first denying or resisting it.” **

So what this basically is saying to me is, We learned through the process of making mistakes that we had to accept it as true to our innermost selves, our innermost selves being accepting this in our hearts, that we were alcoholic. When we could do that the battle in our thinking would quiet. At least it did for me.

The second sentence, “This is the first step in recovery.” is not to be confused with step one of the 12 steps. It is important to identify though, this process is a first step taken in relevance to understanding step 1 on a deeper level. Once I begin to move toward acceptance of my alcoholism, or in any case, whatever it is you are powerless over, then understanding step one with more depth and clarity happens.

Were I  to re-write this, in a simple format for me to digest, It would read like this, “We learned through the process of mistakes, that we had to fully accept in our hearts that it was true that we were powerless over our substance of choice, and that with acceptance of that powerlessness, I begin to open my mind to a solution. Once eliminating that doubt, then we can begin to move forward with fully comprehending the first step of the Twelve Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous.

References:
http://www.aa.org/assets/en_US/en_bigbook_chapt3.pdf
** https://www.google.com/search?q=concede+define&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8